- Introduction:
Why is it important for health and wellness professionals to develop psychologically, spiritually and physically? What areas do you need to develop to achieve the goals you have for yourself?
It is important
for professionals to develop themselves in ways that will make them credible to
their clients. When a first impression
is made it sometimes difficult to change it if it was initially a negative
impression. With this in mind if we as
professionals are slacking in an area that the client needs the most help in we
will not be very effective. I know for
me I need to work on the spiritual aspect.
I have always tied spiritual with religious, which I have now come to
realize is not the case. I am now better
able to work on this aspect without the pressures associated with any one
religion.
- Assessment:
How have you assessed your health in each domain? How do you score your wellness spiritually, physically, and psychologically?
I have had to
keep reassessing myself, which is good in some ways and frustrating in others.
Physically I am in a good place. I know
I need a little tweaking; however, nothing much it is just a matter of dealing
with the lack of time in my life that requires me to use more processed foods
then I like. Psychologically speaking I
am forever getting better. I am hoping
when I get to the magical point where flourishing really happens I will know
it. When I use the hindsight I can see
how far I have come in the past 13 years of my life and all I can say is wow
that is amazing. Spiritually I am not at
all where I want to be or think I should be.
This area is one I have neglected for a very long time. I have grown, at least for my personal
assessment, the most in this area in the last 9 weeks. I know I still have my work cut out for me
but having the fear in check is a huge benefit.
- Goal
development:
List at least one goal you have for yourself in each area, Physical, Psychological (mental health) and Spiritual.
My goal
physically is to cut out even more processed foods and to complete the full
marathon in the spring. My goal for my
mental health is to take more time to react.
I want to be even less impulsive.
My spiritual goal is to find the oneness that is in all life
forces. I realize this will take a lot
of time and training but I know I will get there. I now get very brief glimpses of the oneness,
and that does please me; however, I know there is more there I am missing.
- Practices for
personal health:
What strategies can you implement to foster growth in each of the following domains; Physical, Psychological, and Spiritual. Provide at least two examples of exercises or practices in each domain. Explain how you will implement each example.
Physical: I will continue to use yoga to improve my flexibility
and breath work as a calming technique. Yoga is a “type of cross-training that
involves the mind/body” and allows us to “work out the mind/body as a single
unit” (Dacher, 2006, p 83). Another
practice I will continue to follow is a good nutrition plan. I am a vegan so by my very nature I have to
“mindful and intentional” when I choose my foods because I am “concerned for
environmental sustainability, world poverty, and animal suffering” (Dacher,
2006, p 108). I am not judging others
but this is just where I am at in my progress.
Psychological: I am really fond of the loving-kindness
exercises. I think what makes this so
appealing to me that it can be done in any location and the benefits can be
felt almost immediately. The following
statement is so true: “it can serve as an antidote to anger and hatred”
(Dacher, 2006, p 93). This is very
helpful for moments when I am too quick to respond with frustration or anger
when I should respond slower and with love.
Another area I need to spend some time working on is “Learning from the
Woodcarver” as we remember he did not have a choice as to the task he had to
complete. His choice came from within in
how he was going to deal with the task.
Finding the positive in the situation and taking pride in you work is a
huge benefit. When I finally slow down
and find the best path for myself in a situation with no other alternatives the
beauty of self-joy from within is priceless.
Spiritual: “Separateness is an expression of cultural
conditioning” (Dacher, 2006, p 93). I
need to recondition myself in search of oneness. I really need to focus on the exercise given
to us by Dacher on page 94, as this is the key, al least for me to find the
oneness I need and desire. Starting off
by observing our separateness then moving into connectedness and finally
reaching for a “universal and interconnected embrace.” It is just moving. Another practice I need to keep to on is
practicing intimacy. Without being
graphic it is hard at times for me to share with others even those I have know
for a very long time like my husband. I
have at times felt as if we do not know each other at all. With work practicing intimacy and spiritual
union I think I will be able to know him better and he can know me better.
- Commitment:
How will you assess your progress or lack of progress in the next six months? What strategies can you use to assist in maintaining your long-term practices for health and wellness?
To check on my
progress I am actually going to do two things to help me remember what my focus
should be and keep me on track. The
first is I am going to rename this file and keep it on my desk top so when I am
doing my homework in the future I will see this file soon to be called:
BODY/MIND/SPIRIT, WHERE ARE YOU? Just
having a visual jog should help since I am doing homework a lot and even when
not doing homework my computer is almost always on. The second strategy I will use will utilize my
cell phone’s calendar. I have programed
in reminders that coincide with my running calendar to practice meditations
while running. I have also programed in
a day each month to revisit and check my progress. I have chosen Monday’s as my day because this
is my calmest day of the week as far as school and work both go. For the monthly Monday check I did not
schedule an end date so until I get a new phone I will be able to continue to
monitor my progress.
Good Luck to everyone and continued growth!
Kristie,
ReplyDeleteAs usual I have really enjoyed your writing. You say things with such clarity. I too have had issues with sprituality, partly because I have yet to truly define it in relation to myself but I'm getting there. I think your goals are wonderful and absolutely attainable. I too have set reminders to include meditation and contemplative practice into my busy schedule and I have made a commitment to increasing my physical fitness level, one reason is because I want to be able to do flying side kicks in Tae Kwon Do (I have issues doing those) as well as to improve my tornado kicks, I want to be able to do my martial arts and not have anyone making concessions because I'm "old" and not as flexible as the kids...I know I'll never be as great as the kids but I can be better. Good luck with your goals!
Marlyn D
Yes, oneness is so important! An exercise that helps me feel "one" with everyone is to go to a concert or something where people are gathering with a similar purpose or shared interest. This really warms my heart and makes me feel like we are not that different at all.
ReplyDeleteI know how being married can be frustrating sometimes. There are times that I think that my husband is nothing like me but if I really pay attention, it turns out we really are quite alike.. that is why we love each other so much. I hope you find what you're looking for and that your relationships flourish!
Best of luck,
-Christan T.
After reading you post you have inspired me. I really love the fact that you seem so energized to improve your life and a number of aspects that encompass your life. You have been such a job to talk to over these past few weeks. I look forward to talking to you in future classes and I am very happy that you have had a number of self realizations over the past few weeks. I have a feeling that you are going to prosper in your future endevours.
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SARAH PRATT
Wonderful posting! You had some great ideas to stay motivated and on track. I use my calendar on my phone to remind me of everything. I have meds, vitamins, appointments, you name it and it is programmed in my phone. It is a wonderful tool. I have mine connected to my google calendar, which is also attached to my email. Just sync it and I am good. Wishing you luck and success on your journey.
ReplyDeleteIt's obvious that you've put a lot of thought into this final post and from other's reaction, the positivity is infectious. It's a great feeling when you revisit your self assessments and see progress over the course of relatively short periods of time. I don't think too many people are where they want to be at in many of their personal evaluations, but I kind of think thats the point.
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